--- title: The Secret is Giving More Than You Get | DISRUPTu! 71 description: Too many funeral homes avoid social until it’s time to rake up some pre-need or advertise a lunch-and-learn. image: https://social.disruptmedia.co/hubfs/449BEFB2-3574-497F-A7DF-941195517A2E.png --- # DISRUPT Media Blog ## [The Secret is Giving More Than You Get | DISRUPTu! 71](https://social.disruptmedia.co/blog/the-secret-is-giving-more-than-you-get-disruptu-71) Jul 7, 2020, 10:13:23 PM / by [Ryan Thogmartin](https://social.disruptmedia.co/blog/author/ryan-thogmartin) - [Tweet](https://twitter.com/share) This might be the most important episode of DISRUPTu! we have created so far! Why? Because: 1) Ryan shares a little secret that may change the way you look at him. 2) It’s full of great content around the idea of GIVING to your audience! Too many funeral homes avoid social until it’s time to rake up some pre-need or advertise a lunch-and-learn. My friends, life does not work like that. To receive value from people, you have to give them even more! Stay tuned for great ideas to help you give to your community and build healthy/mutually beneficial relationships!   GET CONNECTED! 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